Frequently
asked
questions

Answers to all your burning questions. About dating anyway.

I’ve worked with 50+ gals to create a sense of joy and peace during their single season. In other words: you’re not alone! But if you’re feeling iffy about getting started, or whether a dating coach is right for you in the first place – let’s figure it out!

  • Can you date successfully without a dating coach? Of course! But sometimes you want someone from the outside, someone who’s got no skin in the game and is on Team YOU 100%.

    A dating coach is someone in your corner, giving you tools & techniques to thrive as you play the game called “Let’s Get Hitched.”

    Because the rules of the game aren’t always clear, right?

    How do you manage your excitement when you find out he swiped right, too?! What do you say in the DMs? Does he initiate? Do you? What are appropriate zero date locales (you know, to make sure you haven’t been catfished)? What do you wear?

    Now imagine navigating these conundrums – and a billion others – with someone dedicated to supporting you every step of the way…

    Did you just sigh with relief? Yep, you just discovered why my job exists. :)

  • I sure wish I could! Alas!

    What I can promise is that I’ll be with you 100% while you’re looking for that hubby of yours. I’ll show you new tools and empower you with skills that enrich ALL your relationships!

    And if you show up, do the work and remain open to the journey, you will make the most of every dating opportunity that comes your way. Because learning how to date makes each date more successful!

  • Oof, I totally get this. It’s hard, isn’t it?

    What makes it harder is that we often try to go it alone.

    Here’s the thing: If you hate dating, how much better will it feel to have someone right there with you, supporting you, cheering you on?

    On top of that, we often forget that dating is a skill! If you’re able to do it well, you’ll get better at it the more you do it.

    Think of me as your dating personal trainer. Just like a personal trainer helps you develop abs through targeted exercises, we’ll work together on specific skills that will get you closer to your goals.

  • Early on in my single season, I realized that I had to be intentional if I was going to find my future husband. And as I walked my path – solo – I had an epiphany:

    Community is where it’s at! Other people help me celebrate the ups and soldier on during the downs.

    There is something so powerful about the words “Me too.” It’s life-giving to share your story, your experiences, your life with other women!

    So that’s exactly the space I’m creating with you and my other clients.

    Dating in community simply means dating intentionally alongside other single women on the same journey.

    Dating in community infuses your dating experience with JOY!

  • Lots of men could probably benefit from a dating coach! But the beautiful thing about all relationships is that they involve two people. And you have 100% control over one of them!

    It helps to remember that dating requires a balance of give-and-take. Sometimes the stark truth is that you & he just aren’t a good fit. Other times, you could be meeting him halfway.

    And in either case, having a coach and a community to offer a fresh perspective is a powerful way to discover your blind spots – especially when you’re feeling extra frustrated & confused!

 

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