You stepped back. You waited. You trusted God. You told yourself that if it was meant to happen, it would happen, without striving, without effort, without you having to engage much at all.

And for a season, that made sense.

But eventually, something honest surfaced: I actually want to be in a relationship. I want partnership. I want marriage.

So you re-entered the world of dating — carefully, hopefully, sometimes reluctantly.

You looked around church circles. You joined singles groups. You tried the apps… deleted the apps… downloaded new ones. You said yes to setups from friends who meant well. You prayed. You reflected. You waited some more.

You even thought about applying to be on the next season of the Bachelor/ette!

You’ve been praying. You’ve been waiting. And you’re still waiting, because that’s what true love does, right? It waits.

And still, it all feels confusing. Heavy. Emotionally taxing.

Not because you’re broken, but because many of us were shaped by dating frameworks that were never designed to support emotional maturity, discernment, or real-time guidance. We were taught to wait quietly, spiritualize confusion, and figure things out alone.

That’s exhausting.

This is where The Dating Revolution begins — not as a rejection of faith, but as a return to wisdom.

The Dating Revolution is about shifting away from fear-based rules, silence, and isolation… and toward clarity, honesty, embodied discernment, and supported growth.

It’s about learning how to date with God — not instead of Him — while also honoring your emotions, your nervous system, and your lived experience.

It’s about recognizing that dating isn’t a test to survive or a season to endure, but a place where real formation happens — when you’re supported.

That’s where my work comes in.

I offer private, 1:1, message-based dating coaching for people who want to participate in this Dating Revolution — approaching dating with intention, faith, and self-trust, rather than pressure or passivity. (Click here to learn more.)

This is deeply personal work. It centers on you: your patterns, your values, and the kind of partnership you’re being shaped for, not just getting into a relationship, but becoming someone who can sustain a healthy one.

Because while your growth is personal, it doesn’t have to happen in isolation.

Whether you’re actively dating, rebuilding after disappointment, or intentionally preparing for marriage, you don’t need to do this alone — and you don’t need to keep doing it the old way.

Dating can be hard. But with the right support, it can also be purposeful and deeply formative.

Welcome to the Dating Revolution. I’m really glad you’re here.