Real-time, message-based dating support, so you never have to do dating alone again.
Private 1:1 coaching for you. real conversation, real guidance, and real support when it actually matters. No weekly Zooms. No Group coaching. No Automated messages. No Generic advice.
Hey, if you’re reading this, chances are dating isn’t “fine.” You’re exhausted by mixed signals, ghosting, and the constant second-guessing. You’re tired of wondering “Am I overreacting?” or “Is this God… or just another confusing situation?” And you’re done trying to figure it all out alone.
Dating Coach In Your Pocket is exactly what it sounds like: me, a real human dating coach, in conversation with you while your real dating life is happening. You’re messaging me (via texts, voice notes, screenshots) in real time, for grounded feedback and support when you’re in the middle of the moment and don’t want to spiral.
And because your life is already full, this is completely on demand. No weekly Zooms. No awkward scheduling. No performative group calls where nothing actually changes. Just private, 1:1 message-based coaching so you can get clarity, confidence, and direction as dating unfolds.
I’m opening space for a select number of singles who are ready to stop doing dating alone and start showing up with deepened emotional maturity, spiritual groundedness, and momentum.
This page will walk you through how it works and who it’s for. If it feels aligned, you’ll apply, and we’ll have a short call to make sure this is the right fit for both of us.
WHAT WE’LL DO TOGETHER
Dating transformation doesn’t come from a total overhaul. You don’t need a new personality or a revamped wardrobe to show up as your best self on dates.
Dating Coach In Your Pocket is about small, intentional shifts — in awareness, boundaries, emotional regulation — that create real momentum over time.
These shifts stack. They compound. And they change everything.
As we work together, I’ll support you in real dating moments and help you:
✨ Become grounded and confident in dating — so you stop walking into dates feeling anxious or second-guessing yourself
✨ Release purity-culture shame and fear-based beliefs that have kept you stuck, small, or confused about what’s “allowed”
✨ Actually enjoy dating again — with curiosity, steadiness, and confidence in who you are becoming
This is hands-on, personal coaching, not theory, not generic advice, not something you have to figure out by yourself, or wait until next Thursday to unpack.
If this feels like something you’ve been longing for, keep reading.
HOW IT WORKS
This isn’t a course, a group program, or another weekly Zoom you’ll feel obligated to attend.
Dating Coach In Your Pocket is private, 1:1 coaching, which means you get support while real dating life is actually happening, not days later when the moment has passed.
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Most dating support shows up too late. By the time you’re spiraling, overthinking, or ready to ghost someone, the moment has already passed.
Call-free coaching changes that.
Instead of waiting for a weekly call, you get real-time support in the moments dating actually happens, when your emotions and nervous system need guidance most.
Here’s why it works:
You make better decisions when you’re grounded, not overwhelmed
You grow faster when you reflect in the moment, not days later
You get guidance for real conversations, messages, and dates, not hypotheticals
Call-free coaching helps you catch patterns as they happen, stay present, and respond with clarity instead of reacting from anxiety or avoidance.
For dating, that kind of timing makes all the difference.
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Dating Coach In Your Pocket is for you if:
You’re a Christian single who’s tired of overthinking and ready to move forward with clarity
You want emotional maturity and self-trust, not just a relationship
You’re open to learning, practicing, and reflecting instead of waiting for things to change on their own
You value faith-rooted, grounded support over clichés or rigid rules
You want honest, compassionate feedback as you practice new ways of showing up in dating
You’re ready to stop doing dating alone and have support in your corner
This isn’t a fit if you’re looking for quick fixes, guarantees, or insight without action.
This work is for people who are ready to participate in their own growth, with faith, courage, and support.
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You’ll start with a short application and a brief call to make sure this support is the right fit (for you and for me). This isn’t a sales call; it’s a check-in so we both feel good moving forward.
Inside the app, you’ll have a private, 1:1 messaging space with me where your personal coaching happens. This is where we process dates, emotions, and next steps together, confidentially and in real time.
You’ll also have optional access to a shared community space where everyone can connect and encourage one another if they want. This is not group coaching, and your primary support is always private and individualized.
You’re in control of how you engage, what you share, where you share it, and when.
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This is call-free coaching that fits into your real life.
There are no scheduled calls or weekly meetings. You message when something comes up, and support is there when you need it, without adding hours to your calendar.
Here’s the support rhythm you can expect:
Replies Monday–Friday
A Saturday check-in
Responses within 24 hours (usually sooner)
This is ongoing monthly support with a 3-month minimum commitment. That timeframe allows space for real growth, not rushed change.
Over time, clients often notice themselves:
staying calmer and more regulated
trusting their discernment
holding boundaries with confidence
showing up with steadiness instead of urgency
You’re not left guessing or spiraling alone. You have consistent, grounded support as you practice new ways of showing up.
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Nope. There’s no requirement to message every day. Some clients check in frequently; others only when something comes up. This support is here when you need it, not something you have to keep up with.
WHY NOW?
Why now? Because if waiting longer was the answer, something would have shifted by now.
You’ve prayed. You’ve reflected. You’ve tried to be patient, faithful, and “low-striving.” And yet dating still feels confusing, heavy, and emotionally draining. Not because you’re doing it wrong, but because nothing actually changes without support, skill, and movement.
Let’s be honest about what “later” usually means:
another few months of overthinking
another round of mixed signals
another season of wondering “Is this God… or am I just confused again?”
another stretch of doing all of this alone
And here’s the truth most people don’t say out loud:
Prayer matters. But dating doesn’t get easier through prayer alone. It gets easier when faith is paired with practice, wise support, and real-life action taken within the story God is already writing for you.
Why now is simple: because you’re already dating (or thinking about dating) right now. And every interaction is shaping your confidence and how you see yourself.
This is your opportunity to stop white-knuckling your way through it, to stop spiritualizing confusion, to stop guessing, spiraling, or shutting down when things get tender.
Dating Coach In Your Pocket exists for this exact moment (while dating is actually happening) so you can:
process things in real time
make small course corrections early
build steadiness instead of urgency
and grow into the grounded, discerning version of yourself God created you to be
You are not behind.
You are not late.
And you are not meant to do this alone.
But readiness isn’t passive — it requires a step.
And if you’re here, reading this, something in you already knows: now is the moment to stop repeating the same patterns and start moving, but this time, with support.
WHY JOIN (LIMITED PRIVATE COACHING SPOTS)
This work is intentionally kept small.
Dating Coach In Your Pocket isn’t a program I want to grow endlessly, because I am the support. I’m reading your messages, listening to your voice notes, noticing patterns, and walking with you through real dating moments as they happen.
To do that well, I limit the number of clients I work with at any given time. That’s not about exclusivity or hype. It’s about presence.
This allows me to:
be fully available and responsive
offer thoughtful, attuned feedback (not rushed or generic)
stay connected to the nuances of your dating life
and support you with the care this work actually requires
That’s also why there’s an application and a short call.
Not to pressure you. Not to convince you. But to make sure this support is the right fit — for you and for me.
This work asks for honesty, openness, and willingness to practice new ways of showing up. If that’s where you are, and if the timing feels right, I’d love to explore whether this is your next step.
KEY DETAILS
Here’s a quick snapshot of what Dating Coach In Your Pocket includes:
✨ 1:1 dating coaching with me — real-time support as dating unfolds
✨ Private messaging space for personal coaching and reflection
✨ Optional community space for encouragement and connection (always your choice)
✨ Daily replies Monday–Friday & a Saturday check-in
✨ Responses within 24 hours (usually sooner)
✨ Ongoing monthly support with a 3-month minimum commitment
✨ Application + short fit call to ensure alignment
✨ Limited capacity to protect depth, presence, and care
Investment: $499 per month
Because this work is relational and capacity-based, availability may change.
SECURE YOUR SPOT
If you’ve read this far, you already know something important: you don’t need more advice, more waiting, or more solo processing.
You need support while dating is actually happening, so you can practice and grow without spiraling or second-guessing yourself.
Dating Coach In Your Pocket is for singles who are ready to stop doing this alone and start showing up with clarity, confidence, and grounded faith, with someone walking alongside them in real time.
Here’s how to take the next step:
Apply using the link below and schedule a call (not a sales call, but to make sure this support is the right fit — for you and for me).
If it’s a yes on both sides and a spot is available, we’ll get you onboarded and started right away.
Investment: $499 per month
This is ongoing, high-touch, 1:1 support with a 3-month minimum commitment, with limited enrollment.
You’re not behind. You’re not late. And you don’t have to figure this out on your own anymore.
(To be crystal clear, this isn’t a sales call. It’s a chance to connect, ask questions, and make sure this level of support is what you’re looking for. No pressure, no convincing — just clarity.)
Here’s the heart of it: you don’t need a whole new personality, and you don’t need to fix yourself. You just need a few powerful shifts.
Shifts that help you stop rushing toward the wrong people or dismissing the right ones too quickly.
Shifts that help you discern instead of second-guess.
Shifts that help you hold boundaries with strength instead of fear.
Shifts that allow you to feel grounded, emotionally steady, and clear, finally dating from confidence instead of confusion.
Dating Coach In Your Pocket was built for this kind of growth. Not dramatic overhauls. Not pressure. Just aligned, intentional shifts — in how you see yourself, what you expect, what you allow, and how you understand your emotions and patterns.
These small shifts create real change. And over time, they add up to a version of you who trusts yourself, honors God, and is genuinely excited about who you’re becoming.
I’m ready when you are.
No pressure. Just clarity and support when it matters.