SHIFT isn’t about finding someone; it’s about becoming someone while dating, one shift at a time.

Tiny shifts. Big energy. A totally new way of showing up in dating. SHIFT is call-free Christian dating coaching for singles who want to stop repeating old patterns and start dating with clarity, confidence, and emotional maturity.

• Shift your standards so you stop entertaining bare-minimum nonsense

• Shift your patterns so you quit spiraling, clinging, or cutting people off too fast

• Shift your presence so you date with actual confidence, not performative calm

Because the second you stop dating from fear and start dating from identity? You become the version of yourself who doesn’t chase, doesn’t crumble, and doesn’t apologize for wanting real connection while dating.

You’ve done the devotionals, prayed the prayers, waited on God, and listened to all the well-meaning-but-wildly-unhelpful advice. And yet… dating still feels like a game where the rules keep changing.

SHIFT is where dating gets transformed.

This is the coaching container for Christian singles who are DONE feeling behind and READY to actually enjoy dating, trust themselves, heal their patterns, and show up with boldness, joy, and Holy-Spirit-led confidence.

You don’t need a total dating overhaul. You don’t need to become a different person. And you definitely don’t need another year of waiting, wishing, or white-knuckling your way through the same patterns.

What you do need? A SHIFT. Not a massive, life-altering explosion—but the kind of small, intentional, holy shifts that change everything over time.

A shift in how you see yourself.
A shift in how you show up.
A shift in what you expect, allow, honor, and pursue.
A shift in the beliefs that shape your dating life—consciously or not.

SHIFT is built on this truth: tiny, aligned shifts create massive impact. And when you stack them—emotionally, spiritually, relationally—you don’t just date differently. You become different in the best, most grounded, most God-led ways.

If you’re reading this, you’re probably done pretending dating is “fine.” It’s not fine. You’re tired of the mixed signals, the ghosting, the confusion, and the overly spiritualized advice that leaves you exactly where you started: not any closer to where you want to be. You want clarity. You want confidence. And you want to stop feeling like you’re running a race you never trained for.

And let’s be real: your schedule is already overflowing. You don’t have time for another weekly Zoom where everyone nods politely and nothing in your actual dating life changes. That’s why SHIFT is completely call-free. No awkward Zoom meetings. No busy calendars to coordinate. Just real-time support, clear guidance, and honest feedback when you actually need it—especially on the days dating gets messy.

Because here’s the real transformation: you don’t just learn how to date better—you learn how to be better at dating. More grounded. More sure of yourself. More connected to God and to your worth. You stop rushing into connection (or rushing away from it) or clinging to crumbs, because you finally feel like the strongest, most grounded version of yourself. And for the first time in a long time, you’re actually excited about who you’re becoming.

I’m opening space for 5 Christian singles who are ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally date with emotional maturity, spiritual groundedness, and real momentum.

WHAT WE’LL DO TOGETHER

Inside SHIFT, you’ll get the kind of guidance, feedback, and “let’s-be-honest” support that actually moves your dating life forward. This coaching isn’t just about improving your dating skills — it’s about helping you become the version of yourself who doesn’t abandon your standards, who doesn’t panic over mixed signals, and who no longer feels compelled to accept crumbs. You’ll learn to recognize that hyper-independence, instant disinterest, or labeling everything a red flag often comes from self-protection—not discernment.  You’ll grow into someone grounded, steady, aligned, and genuinely proud of how you show up. Inside SHIFT, you’ll learn how to slow down, stay present, regulate your nervous system, and discern with clarity instead of fear. Working together, you’ll:

• Get better at dating as a real skill—so you walk into every date with confidence instead of anxiety

• Release shame and unlearn the purity-culture messaging that has kept you stuck, scared, or small

• Regulate your nervous system so you stay grounded, calm, and emotionally present (even with a cute guy across the table)

• Learn to trust your body as a God-given compass for boundaries, pacing, and discernment

• Feel genuinely excited about dating again instead of dreading apps, conversations, or first dates

• See how dating reveals who you are and how God uniquely designed you—so you show up with clarity, joy, and sovereignty

You’ll have 1:1 call-free access to message me anytime (text, audio, screenshots) for strategy, support, and those “wait… what do I say next?” moments.

HOW IT WORKS

This isn’t a course, a group program, or another weekly Zoom you’ll drag yourself to. SHIFT is call-free, personalized 1:1 coaching inside a messaging app—which means you’ll get grounded, strategic, faith-rooted support exactly when real dating life is happening, not days later.

Think of me as your dating coach in your pocket!

WHY NOW?

Why now? Honestly—why not now? If patience alone was the magic solution, you’d already be in a healthy, aligned, joy-filled relationship. But instead, you’re still here—confused, discouraged, and doing the emotional gymnastics the church never prepared you for.

Let’s just call it what it is: you’ve been surviving on a diet of conflicting, outdated, and wildly unhelpful Christian dating advice.

“Just be patient.”
“Don’t chase.”
“Don’t be too picky… but also don’t settle.”
“Guard your heart—but also put yourself out there—but also don’t look like you’re trying too hard.”

Meanwhile, you’re navigating modern dating with purity-culture expectations, fear-based beliefs, and emotional patterns that never came from Scripture in the first place. And you wonder why dating feels like a whole situation.

Here’s the truth nobody told you: Nothing changes until YOU change.
Not the apps.
Not the algorithm.
Not the men or women you’ve matched with.
Not your “luck.”
You.

That’s why now matters. Because you’re done doing loops in the same emotional cul-de-sac. You’re done trying to heal through wishful thinking. You’re done pretending confusion is “God closing doors” when it’s actually just… confusion.

SHIFT is your moment to break the cycle. To stop doing this alone. To grow emotionally, spiritually, and relationally—with support that actually meets you in the real moments dating gets messy.

You are not behind. You are not broken. You are not “waiting for a spouse to magically appear.” You’re ready—and readiness requires movement. Are you ready to move toward what you want?

THE FOUNDERS ROUND

I’m calling this first round of SHIFT the Founders Round—a tiny, high-support container for the early clients who want to walk with me while this offer is brand new, personal, and packed with transformation.

Because this is the FIRST round, you’re getting a level of access, attention, and real-time coaching that won’t be available later. I’m keeping this group intentionally small so I can be in your actual dating moments with you—helping you catch patterns fast, course-correct in real time, and make shifts you’ve been trying to make for years.

And let’s be clear: Founders pricing is a one-time thing. Future rounds (if they happen) will match the full value of this work (which means a much higher price).

Inside this round, you get the real stuff: the voice notes, the “okay, pause, let’s look at this message again,” the “don’t text him that—try this instead,” and the honest, compassionate truth you’ve needed.

This round is intimate. It’s powerful. It’s high-touch. And it will not happen again. If you’re serious about your dating life in 2026, don’t sleep on this; once those spots are filled, they’re gone! (But we’ll open up a waitlist.)

SECURE YOUR SPOT

You’ve done the overthinking. You’ve tried the “wait and pray” strategy. You’ve hoped the next year would magically be different. But real change doesn’t come from waiting harder—it comes from shifting the beliefs, habits, and emotional patterns that have kept you stuck.

And look… if that worked, you wouldn’t be here reading this.

There is NOTHING wrong with you—but there is something wrong with trying to fix your dating life with the same tools, beliefs, and patterns that got you stuck in the first place.

You deserve clarity. You deserve support. You deserve someone in your corner who actually gets it—and won’t let you sabotage your own growth.

If you’re tired of talking yourself in circles, tired of feeling behind, tired of wondering what you’re “doing wrong,” and so, SO tired of trying to decode men/women/messages/emotions all by yourself… SHIFT is your next right step.

You’re not just joining a program. You’re choosing transformation over confusion, courage over fear, and maturity over the same cycles you’ve been praying your way out of.

And here’s the heart of it: you don’t need a whole new personality — you just need a few powerful shifts. Shifts that help you stop rushing toward the wrong people or rejecting good people too quickly. Shifts that help you discern instead of dismiss. Shifts that help you hold boundaries with strength instead of fear. Shifts that allow you to feel like the most grounded, emotionally steady version of yourself, finally dating from clarity instead of confusion. If you’re longing to become the you that you know is inside you — the you who’s actually excited about who you’re becoming — SHIFT was built for you. You don’t need a whole new life—just a few aligned, powerful shifts. Shifts in how you see yourself. Shifts in what you expect. Shifts in what you allow. Shifts in how you interpret your emotions, your patterns, and the dating dynamics that used to throw you off. These small shifts create big impact.