A dating coach in your pocket. Because “just pray about it” can’t be the only strategy.

Private 1:1 coaching by text, voice note, and screenshot, while your dating life is actually happening. No weekly Zooms. No group calls. No canned advice. Just me, in your corner, in real time.

Let’s be honest. Dating isn’t “fine.”

He texted “hey stranger” after three weeks of silence, and you’ve drafted four replies. You’re wondering if you’re overreacting. You’re wondering if this is God, or just another situationship with a worship playlist. And you’re sorting it all out alone at 11pm, in a group chat full of friends who got married at 23.

That ends here.

Dating Coach In Your Pocket is exactly what it sounds like. It’s me, a woman who dated on nine apps with a spreadsheet to keep the men straight, living in your phone. Screenshot the text. Send the voice memo from the parking lot five minutes before the date. I’ll tell you what I see, and I’ll tell you the truth.

I work with a small number of Christian single women at a time, women who are done waiting quietly and ready to start dating like they mean it.

WHAT WE’LL DO TOGETHER

You don’t need a new personality or a new wardrobe. And you definitely don’t need another book about guarding your heart.

You need practice, and someone who catches you before you spiral. That means small shifts in how you show up, what you put up with, and how you handle the feelings. You make them over and over, in real situations, with real men. They stack. Faster than you’d think.

Together, we’ll:

✨ Get you walking into dates steady, instead of rehearsing your exit strategy in the car
✨ Torch the purity-culture shame that taught you everything you shouldn’t do and nothing you should
✨ Make dating something you actually enjoy. Yes, enjoy. It’s allowed.

HOW IT WORKS

This isn’t a course you’ll forget to log into, or a Zoom you have to plan for every Thursday.

Dating Coach In Your Pocket is private, 1:1 coaching. Something happens, you message me, I answer. That’s it.

  • Picture it. It’s 9:47pm. He just sent “lol ok” to the paragraph you spent forty minutes on. Your weekly coaching call is in six days.

    By then you’ll have drafted three replies, sent the worst one, deleted his number, and decided you’re destined to be the cool aunt forever.

    That’s the problem with most dating support. It shows up after the damage is done.

    Call-free coaching means you screenshot the “lol ok” and send it to me before you do something about it. I’ll help you figure out what actually happened (spoiler: usually less than your 9:47pm brain thinks), and what you want to do next.

    Why it works:

    • You make better decisions with backup than you do alone at midnight

    • You learn faster from a real text from a real man than from any hypothetical

    • You catch your patterns while they’re happening, not three weeks later on a Zoom

    Dating happens in real time. Your coaching should too.

  • This is for you if:

    • You’re a Christian single woman who knows every rule about what not to do, while nobody ever taught you what to do

    • You’ve deleted the apps, re-downloaded the apps, and deleted them again, and you’re tired of the cycle

    • You’ve been “waiting on God’s timing” so long you’re starting to wonder if your prayers went to voicemail

    • You can handle the truth, even when it’s not the version you wanted

    • You want to actually go on the date, not just think about going on the date

    • You’d rather become someone who can build a great relationship than just land one

    This is not for you if:

    • You want me to tell you he’s definitely going to text back

    • You’re looking for a formula, a script, or a guarantee (I can’t promise you a husband, and anyone who does is selling something)

    • You want to talk about dating without doing any dating

    • You think needing support means you’re doing faith wrong

    If you’re nervous, that’s fine. Most women who need this are. Nervous and willing is exactly where we start.

  • 1. Apply. It’s short. Tell me where you are in your dating life and what’s been getting in your way.

    2. Hop on a quick call. We’ll see if we click. You’re interviewing me as much as I’m interviewing you.

    3. Get your private line to me. Once you’re in, you’ll have a 1:1 messaging space in the app. That’s where the real work happens: the screenshots, the post-date voice memos, the “okay, what do I say back?” moments. Just you and me, completely confidential.

    4. Join the community (if you want to). There’s also an optional space where the other women in the program cheer each other on, swap stories, and remind each other they’re not crazy. It’s not group coaching, and you never have to post a thing. Your coaching always happens privately, with me.

    You decide what you share, where, and when. I just make sure you never have to figure it out alone.

  • Zero hours on your calendar. No scheduled calls, no Thursday Zooms, no homework due Sunday night.

    You message me when something comes up: a text you don’t know how to answer, a date tomorrow you’re nervous about, a guy who’s being weird. That’s it. Some women message me every day. Some go quiet for a week, then send twelve voice notes after a wild Saturday. Both are fine. You never have to keep up with me.

    Here’s when I’m there:

    • Replies Monday through Friday

    • A weekend check-in

    • Responses within 48 hours, usually much faster

    There’s a 3-month minimum, and here’s why. One month is enough to get excited and go on two dates. Three months is enough to actually change how you date. The women who get the most out of this aren’t the ones who had one great week. This is what you’re working toward:

    • Stop rehearsing every text for an hour before sending it

    • Trust your gut about a guy before the red flag became a parade

    • Say no without writing a three-paragraph apology

    • Walk into a date curious instead of desperate

WHY NOW?

If waiting were going to work, it would have worked by now.

You’ve prayed. You’ve been patient. You’ve been “low-striving” so long you’ve practically gone horizontal. And you’re still here, wondering if there’s a better way.

Here’s what “later” usually looks like: another few months of overthinking, another round of mixed signals, another “is this God or am I just confused again?”, another season of doing it all alone.

Prayer matters, and I’m not here to talk you out of it. But faith without practice is just hoping really hard. God gave you a brain, a phone, and a free Saturday. Let’s use all three.

You are not behind.
You are not late.
And you are not meant to do this alone.

WHY THERE ARE ONLY A FEW SPOTS

I read every message and listen to every voice note myself. No assistants, no templates, no bots. That’s why spots are limited, and why there’s an application.

And yes, there’s a call. It’s a two-way interview. You’re deciding whether you trust me, and I’m deciding whether you’re ready to do the work. If you want someone who’ll only tell you what you want to hear, I’m not your gal. If you want someone who’ll tell you the truth and stay in your corner while you act on it, let’s talk.

THE DETAILS

✨ Private 1:1 coaching with me, by text, voice note, and screenshot
✨ Responses Monday–Friday, plus a weekend check-in, so we can debrief those Friday and Saturday dates while they’re fresh.
✨ Responses every weekday before 7pm, usually much sooner
✨ An optional community space, if you want backup from women in the same boat
✨ Ongoing monthly support, with a 3-month minimum, because real change doesn’t happen overnight
✨ Application + a short call to make sure we’re a fit

Investment: $499/month, with a 3-month minimum

Apply for Dating Coach In Your Pocket
 

I’m ready when you are.

No pressure. Just clarity and support when it matters.